Cheers To Big Changes!

Cheers To Big Changes!

As we are getting close to the Christmas holiday, I think it is great to talk about your wishes and dreams. However, I am not going to talk about what you want from the new year or what your New Year resolutions are. I want to show you something more important than that, and I want to make your wishes come true. Does that sound good to you? You’re going to discover how to create space in your life to receive something better by changing your perspective and leaving things/people/job…etc. that no longer serve you. And, You can move into 2020 with more freedom and a lighter soul. wink

I want you to think about something that you have been obsessed with recently in your life. You wanted to have it in a certain way and at a certain time; everything needed to be just the way you wanted it. However, it’d not been happening and you didn’t understand why which made you more frustrated about it.

I always talk about the Universe and how it guides us in life. If you believe that there is energy leading us to the lessons we are meant to learn in our lives and that no matter what happens, it is the best for us, then we can move forward with this topic.

Before we dig into my real-life experience, I want to give you a visual of a miracle. wink Sometimes, you need to let go of something to get something bigger and better in your life. You need to leave the environment where you feel stuck to feel free, you need to quit that job to find the better one, you have to let go of the person in your life to receive the new one who is healthier for you. You literally need to take the trash out to make space for new things, right? You gotta give up, leave, change, remove… to receive new, better, more fulfilling experiences, better people in your life. You need to leave your comfort zone, my friend, again and again, I will say this forever. You have everything to lose when you do not leave your comfort zone. If you do not leave your comfort zone you will never gain anything new, and as a result, cannot grow. Think of it this way- Imagine that you have a plate full of food that you’re done with, you no longer want to eat the asparagus that you have on your plate, and you are not craving the salmon anymore. You are ready to eat your dessert and have a cup of coffee with that. However, if you don’t give your plate to the waiter how you are going to have room for your dessert plate and the coffee on your table? You have to make a decision to leave or give up something that you already have to be able to receive what you want or what you are ready for.

Let’s continue with a specific example from my life. Last year, when I had a full-time job, I didn’t have enough time to work for my own marketing and coaching clients which means I didn’t have enough space on my plate to put more food/more clients. Thankfully, The Universe did the work for me by allowing my position to be laid off. Instead of going against The Universe and asking why this happened to me, feeling a victim. I let go of the job that was no longer there for me. I moved on by accepting and having faith in what is meant to be my next step. A day after I lost my job, I received a text message from a coaching client: “My husband’s co-worker wants to work with you.” Therefore I got another coaching client! A few days later, a person who goes to the same gym I go to reached out to me asking for my marketing service. A week later I met a woman randomly at the coffee shop whose needs also need marketing services and we will most likely start working together. I attracted new clients in both marketing and coaching. Because I now have space on my plate and am ready to use my time working for my clients, I can focus on doing what I love. Do you see how the law of attraction works? Once you are ready to receive, once you accept and let go of the things that are not serving you, you’re going to have bigger and more fulfilling experiences – I call these miracles.

Here is the most important part of it! -> Faith… You have to have faith in you, believe in what you desire, believe in your dreams, and trust your intuition. Accept whatever comes to your life with a fresh perspective, let go of the things that are toxic, not ideal or even things that are second best. Do what you love, be with people you love and who love you back. You are free to live your life in any way you want, the best will come only by being faithful and patient. Though I gave an example from my life, I am no expert of letting go. We all learn from one another if we are open! The key is to be open to receive and to accept whatever comes. I am currently feeling super free, more so than ever in my life and am getting ready to launch my own business. So, stay tuned for what comes next… I am excited to find out.

Share with me your experiences, what you are ready to let go of and what you might receive. wink

Love hearing from you heart

Talk to you soon…


December 12, 2019



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